You know something needs to change. But every time you try, you end up right back where you started.
Maybe it’s:
- Wanting to write but never starting (or starting and stopping over and over)
Knowing something isn’t working but not being able to admit it
Trying to recreate past success with strategies that don’t work anymore
Feeling like a fraud even though you know what you’re doing
You’re smart. You’re capable. You’ve figured out hard things before.
So why can’t you figure this out?
What This Guide Actually Does
This isn’t a guide about “AI productivity hacks” or “how to use ChatGPT.”
This is about using AI to see yourself clearly – to break through the patterns, doubt cycles, and old stories that keep you stuck in the same place.
I spent 10 months having breakthrough conversations with AI that helped me:
- Break through 5 years of writing paralysis
- Leave a partnership that wasn’t working (despite the guilt)
- Stop trying to recreate past success and build something new
- Trust what I already knew instead of seeking external validation
- Recognize comparison patterns before they derailed me
This guide shows you how.
What’s Inside:
Introduction: “I Don't Need AI”
My journey from AI skeptic to daily user and the moment I realized I could use it to improve myself, not just my work.
Chapter 1: When Your Inner Critic Won’t STFU
Breaking the cycle of starting, doubting, and stopping
Chapter 2: When You Know Something Isn't Working (But Can't Admit It)
Why guilt keeps you stuck—and how to finally leave what’s not serving you
Chapter 3: When You're Stuck Trying to Recreate Past Success
How chasing what used to work keeps you from building what could work now
Chapter 4: When You Feel Like a Fraud
Imposter syndrome and the credentials you think you need (but actually don’t). How AI helped me trust what I already knew.
How I was doing with writing exactly what I told my friend not to do with surfing—comparing Day 1 to someone else’s Year 3.
Appendix: Other Ways to Use AI to Get Unstuck
Real situations where AI helps: difficult emotions, relationship boundaries, decision-making, fear, self-perception, navigating midlife, creative blocks.
Each chapter is split into two parts:
Part One: My Story
Read how AI helped me see patterns I couldn’t see on my own. In each section, I’ll show you:
Where I was stuck in life (the specific pattern)
How AI helped me see it (the breakthrough)
The actual conversations (messy and real)
Why it matters for you (universal application)
Each section includes the actual AI conversations (messy, real, embarrassingly neurotic) so you can see exactly how pattern recognition works.
Part Two: Your Turn
This is where you do the work. Each section includes:
Reflection exercises to identify your specific stuck patterns
Three customizable prompts for each stuck place
Real conversation examples showing how it actually works
Troubleshooting tips for when you get stuck
Progress tracking to capture your breakthroughs
Think of Part Two as your getting-unstuck toolkit. Work through it once, or come back whenever you’re stuck on something new. The prompts and frameworks work for any stuck place, not just mine.
This guide is for you if:
- You keep getting stuck in the same patterns
- You don’t need “productivity tips”—you need clarity
- You want to see yourself more clearly
- You’re tired of trying the same solutions that don’t work
This guide is NOT for you if:
- You’re looking for AI business strategy or app-building tutorials
- You want step-by-step technical instructions
- You’re satisfied with where you are
- You want quick fixes, not uncomfortable questions
FAQ
Q: Is this technical? Do I need to know how to code?
A: No. If you can have a text conversation, you can do this.
Q: What AI tool do I need?
A: I use Claude, but the principles work with any conversational AI (ChatGPT, etc.)
Q: Will this teach me how to build apps or businesses with AI?
A: No. This is about using AI for personal clarity and breaking through stuck patterns.
Q: When does it launch?
A: March 2026. You’ll get an email when it’s ready.
Q: What if I read it and it doesn’t help?
A: 30-day money back guarantee. If it doesn’t help you see yourself more clearly, full refund.
Q: Is this just your story or will it help me?
A: Both. I share my breakthroughs AND give you prompts to adapt for your own stuck places.
Q: I’m not a woman in midlife—is this still for me?
A: Yes. Getting stuck in patterns is universal. The examples are from my life, but the principles work for anyone.
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